Friday, December 31, 2010

The Last Day of the Year - 2010

Dear Amazing -

Today is the last day of 2010.  I am so looking forward to what 2011 will bring to us and our family.  I loved how we ended the year at Nags Head and watching this beautiful sunset.  That is one of the things that I love most about you is that I just never know what beautiful things that I will see with you but I do know that I will see something beautiful everyday - YOU!


Here are my "HOPES" for this new year for us...

  • I HOPE that we are more in love at the end of 2011 than we are now - and that will be difficult since I love you so much right now.
  • I HOPE that we are able to welcome a healthy, happy little boy into our family come April.
  • I HOPE that we are able on our 5th Anniversary to look back and say that marrying each other was the best choice we ever made in life.
  • I HOPE that we are able to spend Thanksgiving with our entire family.
  • I HOPE that we both acheive success at our work.
  • and I HOPE that we laugh a little each day and every night fall asleep in each other arms.  
I love you and I love the "HOPE" that you give me at the beginning of each new year.  Happy New Baby!

Ace

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Christmas Gift - 2010

Merry Christmas Baby -

YOU ARE AMAZING





You truly are my Greatest Gift!

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Happy Birthday to Me!

Dear Best Present Ever -

Last night we celebrated my birthday by going to the "The Melting Pot" to have a chocolate desert in downtown DC.  I had so much fun just talking and sharing even though we both didn't feel the best.  You really are my best friend and soulmate.  I have never liked birthdays - but somehow with you I look forward to getting old and fulfilling our dream of sitting together on the porch and remembering all of our "GREATS" together.  You certainly made this night a Great for me.  Thank you for being my best present ever!
I love you ~
Ace


Monday, November 22, 2010

It's a Boy!

Baby -

We just found out that we are going to be having a baby boy!  I am so excited to be having another baby with you.  You are amazing and I am glad that you are the mother of my children.  I love you now and forever!

Wednesday, November 03, 2010

Our New Addition's Heartbeat




Dear Mommy To Be -

I am so excited about our new addition.  I was so relieved to hear the baby's heartbeat for the first time.  This baby is going to be so blessed to have you as it's mommy - just like I am blessed to have you as my wife.  I love you so much and I thank God everyday that I get to spend all of my days with you!

Your Biggest Fan!

Ace

Thursday, October 21, 2010

My Little Treat

Dear Little Treat -

You have just blown me away with an amazing weekend.  It seems as if we spent all of Saturday together - you were AMAZING!  I think this is the first time that you took my breath away so many times...  I think 4 to be exact!  You are the best wife any man could hope to have.  I believe that I am the luckiest man in the world!

Your Exhausted Husband!

Saturday, September 18, 2010

A Unexpected Change

Dear Biggest Cheerleader -

I found out this week that I was going to be laid off.  This was unexpected and unwelcomed.  However, the wonder of this situation was how you have supported me and loved me even through difficult times.  Thank you for doing that again and being the thing that I live my life for.  I love you so much...

Your Adoring Husband

Monday, August 30, 2010

Our New Little Jelly Bean

Dear Mommy to Be -

We just got back from the doctor where this picture was taken.  This is the first picture of the newest addition to our family.  I love you so much and I can't believe we are doing this again, but I am glad we are.  I love that our family is growing and that I get to have another special blessing with you!  You are the best wife and mother ever and I can't wait until we get to meet our little jelly bean!

Ace

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Our Special Little Night


Dear Mommy To Be -

Thank you for this special night that you prepared for me to tell me about our special arrival.  I was so shocked when I came upstairs and found a trail of jelly beans that led me to the bedroom where you were waiting for me.  I loved the special frame and engraving that you had of your belly to tell me "what our love created". 

I am so in love with you and I love the fact that our family is growing.  I just know that we are going to love this little jelly bean and this bean is going to bring so much laughter and joy into our life.  You are the best mommy any baby could ask for.  This little bean is going to be so lucky to have you as it's mother.

Thank you for being my wife and thank you for this special little gift!

Friday, July 16, 2010

Our Disney Leg

Dear Minnie Mouse -

We just got back from the Disney portion of our 2010 Family Vacation.  I really enjoyed going to Disney World this year.  Kaiden had such a good time as he got to see all of his Disney friends.  One of my favorite pictures is all of us with Mickey and Minnie:


I  know that a lot of things have changed since we starting going to Disney over the last few years but I really do enjoy all of our trips to Disney.  This year was special because of how Kaiden loved Mickey, Minnie, Donald, Gupy, Pluto, Daisy, and Chip and Dale. 

I also enjoyed getting to celebrate your birthday in Disney.  I was glad to get you the princess package - because you truly are my princess.  Lastly, I will remember the chocolate fireworks party.  It was great to get such a great view of the fireworks over the castle. 

Your Special Micky!

Monday, July 12, 2010

Our Mexican Vacation

Dear Baby,

We just got back from our 2010 Family Vacation.  We spent the week in Playa Del Carmen, Mexico.  I think we will always remember this week and our first real trip to Mexico.  We accomplished so much in a week.  Just a quick recap of the week...

  • Saturday - Arrived at the Hotel and went into Playa Del Carmen
  • Sunday - Week to church and then ate lunch in downtown Playa Del Carmen
  • Monday - Toured the Resort and then went to Cancun
  • Tuesday - Toured the ruins at Tulem and went to the beach at Akumal
  • Wednesday - Hotel Day
  • Thursday - Tour with Edventures - snorkling, swimming in the Cenotes, lunch on the beach, ziplinning, and swimming in the lagoon.
  • Friday - Trip to Cozumel and the kids swimming with the Dolphins. 
  • Saturday - Leave
One of the highlights of the week was when we got our beach pictures. 


I really love our family vacations.  Of course I just love being with you.  I can't wait to see where we go next year.

Ace

Friday, June 04, 2010

Kaiden's 2nd Birthday Party


Wow - I can't beleive our little baby is already 2!  We spent the night at Chuckie Cheese and Kaiden had fun watching and looking at all the games.  We had a good time with your parents and the kids.

I know that the 8 greats are our thing, but I though for Kaiden's 2nd birthday I would recount the 8 greats of Kaiden's first 2 years...

1.  My First Day of Life (June 3rd, 2008) - I was so proud of you and all your hard work to deliver me.  I couldn't wait to be held in your arms.

2.  My trip to Niaragra Falls (June 2009) - It was so beautiful and it was my first trip out of the country.  I love that our family travels.

3.  Our trip to Key West/Palm Beach (August 2009) - I have now been to the southern most part of the United States.  The water is so beautiful and I loved playing in the water at Hawk's Cay Resort.  You guys do such great trips.

4.  New Year's in Disney World (Jan. 31st, 2008) - I know that I slept through the fireworks but I really enjoyed seeing Disney World for the first time and earlier in the day I was able to stand on the beach and feel sand for the first time.

5.  My First Christmas (Dec. 25th, 2008) - It was so much fun opening presents.  I know I feel asleep in my Bumbo but it was only because I was having so much fun and simply was exhausted.

6.  My first steps at Grandma and Grandpa's House (May 2009) - It was my first flight and it was to Missouri.  I was glad to take my first steps in front of the family.  I love my family so much!

7.  My 1st Bithday Picture (June 2009) - I love being the center of attention and getting my picture taken.  Some of my pictures turned out great and I love that you guys made me so handsome.

8.  Just Every morning that I get to snuggle up with you!  I so love laying in bed with you and cuddling!

Thursday, June 03, 2010

Kaiden's Birthday Lunch

Mother of My Children -

It's Kaiden's 2nd Birthday - I can't beleive that he is already 2!  I am so glad that we had him and that you are his mother.  He has added so much to our lives.  I really cherish these moments in our lives.

I really enjoyed having lunch at the park together.  It felt like our little family.  Kaiden was eyeing the park the whole time and he wanted to go "Wheeeeee."

I enjoyed watching you push Kaiden on the swing and of course we enjoyed watching him go down the slides.  Today was a great day!

Tuesday, June 01, 2010

Kaiden's Birthday Weekend


Dear Mommy of a Two Year Old -

This weekend we went to Sesame Place outside of Philadelphia.  This was such a fun day and I love the family trips that we take.  It was fun to watch Kaiden looking and watching all the people.  It was also fun to watch Kaiden on his first real waterslide!

I think we will always remember this day and how COLD the water was.  It was adorable watching you hold Kaiden in a towell on your lap.  You are such a great mom and I fall in love with you all over again each new day!

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

My Sexy Hot Wife


Dear Hot Sexy Wife -

You are so damn hot!  I am so in love with you and am so lucky that I get to spend my life with a woman that is so sexy and hot!  After all of these years you still know how to get me going.  I have so many great memories of our times together. 

I swear you could be a model!  You look so hot in this picture.  I am amazed how beautiful you!  I am the luckiest man alive!

Sunday, May 09, 2010

Happy Mother's Day

Dear Mother of My Children -

Happy Mother's Day and thank you for being the glue that holds our family together.  You are a wonderful mother and a terrific wife.  I love you so much and I am so glad you are the mother of my children. 

We celebrated by taking you out on Saturday night to dinner at Buco De Bepo in the Kentlands.  I enjoyed eating at this family style restruant.  We went to church on Sunday and then I fixed steaks and sides for dinner.  We gave you your present (pajama gram) and then we went to "The Melting Pot" for desert. 

Overall - this was just a small way to show you that we love you.

Happy Mother's Day!

Monday, April 26, 2010

Our Rocky Month

Dear Amazing -

This month has been a difficult one for us - maybe, the most difficult since we have been together. We found out 2 weeks ago that there was something wrong with the pregency and we have now lost our little bundle. I know that we are both so sad....

I just wanted you to know a few things.

1. I am so proud of you! Sweetheart, years ago when we first got together I told you that I loved the way that you handle things with Grace and Beauty! You have done it again. I have been amazed at how you have been so strong through this. You have been so brave and I have been so impressed by you.

2. I love you so much - and I always will no matter what! You are my best friend and my soul mate. Sweetheart, I want you to know that there is nothing that you could do that would make my love for you lessen. I love you unconidtionally.

Amazing - I love you and I know that together we can overcome anything. Thank you for being my wife and my best friend!

Ace

Monday, April 05, 2010

One Last Hunt!

Dear Mother Hen -

Yesterday we celebrated easter with our church and had one finally easter egg hunt for the kids. I took this quick picture with you and wanted to post it here. I love this picture with you and Kaiden and how you helped him to find all his eggs. I love you and I love our special days together.


Our Family Tradition - Easter Egg Hunting

Dear Easter Bunny -
This past weekend we celebrated Easter with the family and WOW what a weekend. On Saturday we went to a park outside of DC and had our family pinic and then hide the eggs from the kids. You and I hide almost 80 eggs and found them all except for 4. I always enjoy our family pinics - even if we have to do them inside on occasion because of the weather.
I took each of the kids picture by the Washington Monument, but I thought Kaiden was cute in the way that he just sat down. I so enjoy this baby and I so enjoy our family. Thank you for being such a great mom and for helping us to have such a great family!

We also read a special little book to kaiden and the kids during lunch called the "Little Red Caboose." Of course you know that this is the book we are sending to our parents to tell them the news that you are going to be having another special baby to add to the Gosnell family.
After we finished with the hunt we drove into DC and got on the Metro to eat at Union Station. I enjoyed leading my family through the crowds at the Cherry Blossom festival. I still remember our first trip to DC and how special that was for us. Everytime I am in DC I think back to that trip and how much we were in love and we just wanted to be together. I still feel that way....
At Union Station we told the kids the news and they were greatly excited. I love how we treat special things as special. Then we headed back to watch the fireworks over the river. We found this special spot and enjoyed the warmth and lights of DC.

Then we headed home. I love you so much and I love our special memories and moments.

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Our Special Little Gift


Dear Mommy To Be Again -
This past weekend you gave me one last surprise anniversary gift. You wrapped up a series of train cars with one extra car - the caboose! You told me we were going to have another baby.
I AM SO EXCITED! I cannot beleive that we are going to have another addition to our family. You are such great mom and I know that you are going to do great over the next 9 months as we prepare for our little caboose to this family. I love you and I am so proud of you for carrying my child. I love you sweetheart!

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Pictures from our Anniversary Weekend


Happy Anniversary Baby -
I was just thinking about our weekend at the Inn at Perry Cabin. I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoyed our weekend.
This first picture is you in our room. You are so beautiful. The fireplace reminds me of our fireplace. I so love our home and how when we go away we remember our home and how we look forward to coming home together.
You are where my home is. Don't ever forget that. We belong together - FOREVER.
This picture of our special night thinking about ou wedding at Namale. I love this picture of you as you are watching our wedding video. This night was so special as we read our vows to each other.
I will never forget our wedding day. It was the best day of my life! I am glad that this year I recorded the notes from our wedding jounal. It really made me feel close to you as I remembered what we wrote and what I was feeing when we wrote it.
We should watch this video every year - just so we can remember. Although I know we will never forget...


This last picture is us on the grounds of the Inn. I like the water in the background. I think this day we always be in my mind as the day we laughed as we looked through the little shops in St. Michael's. Also, how Kaien wanted to jump as he walked between us.
I do love you and love all of the memories and the "8 Greats" that we share together. Our life is what I always dreamed about. I look forward to our next 46 years together.
I love you baby - I always have, and I always will.
Ace

Monday, March 08, 2010

Our Anniversary Day

Dear Bride of 4 Years!

We just celebrated our 4th year Anniversary by spending the day relaxing and going on a date in the evening. We spent all day upstairs in our room. We had the kids serve us breafast (cheese toast and cinmmion rolls) and lunch (pizza) in bed. This kind of reminded me of the food I ate on our wedding day.

We wrote in our anniversary book (reflections of the year and our notes to each other.) I so love this book that you gave to me.

Then we exchanged our gifts to each other.

This year I gave you 1. The 50 year book from our wedding and a framed box of th puzzle of my vows and a picture. 2. A picture of a plane and a sky writing of the words "shonda marry me, kenneth" to remind you of when I asked you to marry me. 3. A bracelet with diamonds in it.

You gave to me - 1. A book about kisses and a choclate heart rose. 2. A wallet from coach. 3. And a Peter Lik picture of a beautiful sunset. I was so amazed that you got me a PeterLik for our anniversary. You are so amazing.

Then that night we got ready for our date..



I had arranged for Ray and the limo that brought us home from the Airport to pick us up and take us downtown to a Co Co Sala - a chocolate resturant in downtown DC. This limo ride was a nice reminder of how special the ride was home from the airport. I remember how excited you were and how you loved seeing the "Just Married" flags flying from the window of the limo. You are my princess and I love doing special things like this to show you how much I love you!

We ate dinner at Co Co Sala - http://www.cocosala.com/. This is Washington DC's only Chocolate lounge and Boutique. I really enjoyed taking you out on the town. You are the best date and thank you for another memorable night.

I love you with all my heart!

Ace

Sunday, March 07, 2010

Our Jounal Entry - Our Wedding Day Part 2

This is what we wrote about the reception after our Wedding...


Kenneth:

We had pictures taken - then off to the beach for the Meka dancers and the kava ceremony. The Sunset was the most beautiful one that we had seen this week. Everything was perfect. We were honored by a traditional Kava ceremony. This is very sacred n the culture. Everyone was quiet as you could tell this was meaningful and profound. Then the meka dancers performed. It was as if the whole villiage particpated. We were overwhelmed by their performance. We were even able to participate. It was a tremendous celebration - one that we will never forget!

Shonda:
I am so glad we got a video of this. It is something that no one would be able to even imagine otherwide - absolutely incredible!

After the dancers performed and each shook our hands, we danced our first dance while our guests watched. Honestly, it felt like we were the only two on the beach. I sang to Kenneth as the song played.

Kenneth:

I felt the same way and I love hearing her sing to me!

Kenneth:

Then we cut the cake. The cake topper looked great. We ggently gave the cake to each other. We were glad to share this moment with our new freinds.

Finally we were able to have our dinner in a private shelter right on the beach with torches burning all around us. It was a wonderful way to end our day.


Kenneth:

Once back at the bure - we gave each other the first of our wedding presents. I gave Shonda a bracelet that was engraved witht he words "I love you Shonda - Kenneth" and on the other side it said "Destiny 3.7.06". and then she gave me a PowerPoint presentation of pictures and words of our times together over the last for years.

I was not only surprised, but I was speechless. It touched my heart very deeply because it was so special.

Our Jounal Entry from our Wedding Day - THE WEDDING


Here is what we wrote about our wedding day!

Kenneth:


Our wedding day - the day started with breakfast and talking with Mary and Danielle about the ceremony. After breakfast we went to the prayer mountain at the villiage to pray. Together we climbed the mountain with the help of our our guide Villie. This was amazing experience. Once at the top we prayed together for our marriage. What a way to start our day and our marriage. And so incredibly cool to be able to do this together!

Shonda:

After our jouney up the mountain, we came back to the resort and had a picnic lunch in the hammocks outside of the gym. It was our wedding day, and yet we were very relaxed and just enjoying the day.

After gathering Kenneth's attire for the wedding and moving it to the Kava Bowl, we headed to the spa. I enjoyed some time in the aromatherapy pools as well as a dip in the hot tub and a sit under the massaging waterfall. This was incredibly relaxing as well as inspiring as I was able to look out over the ocean and watch the waves.


Kenneth:

My Spa treatment included a pedicure and a manicure. This was a first. It was nice way to relax before the wedding. After the spa I headed back to the Kava Bowl in my robe to get ready for the ceremony. There I met the preacher and talked with Omar while I waited...

Shonda:

Meanwhile I went back to our bure to shower and begin to prepare myself for the ceremony. Samantha came over about 3:30 pm to help me with my hair. Having her there was a Godsend! I was able to relax and continue my makeup as she dried and straightened my hair. Carolyn came over shortly thereafter and Danielle not to long after that. They repeatedly told me how beautiful my dress was and what a beautiful bride I would be. Samantha saved the day by putting in a spur of the moment braid with her necklace, as my hair kept trying to curl up in the humidity. She did a really good job and everyone liked it a lot.

Once dressed, the girls helped me finalize my jewelry decision, touched up my lipstick, made sure I had my old, new, borrowed, blue, and stuffed the penny in my shoe, and off we were to the carriage (golfcart) to the ceremony site!


Kenneth:
While at the site - I talked with the guests and the choir and the minister. The site was decorated with flowers from fiji. The arch was beautiful. Everything was set. We all were waiting for the grand entrance of the bride. I could not wait to see her. I knew she would be beautiful - and then I saw her and all I could think was "WOW" - "SHE LOOKS AMAZING!"


Shonda:

Once at the WALA Deck the four fijian warriors escorted me down the deck and to where the guests and Kenneth were waiting. When I saw him I immediately felt at ease and at that point it didn't even matter who else was there watching or what the decorations looked like. All I could do was look at him. He looked incredible and I could tell from his "Wow" that he was pleased! :)


Kenneth:

The choir sang as she entered. Then the preacher started the ceremony - it was wonderful. The ocean, the mountains, and Shonda as my Bride. My favorite part was when Shonda gave me her vows! "WOW", they wew amazing, just like her.

Shonda:

The entire ceremony couldn't have been any more beautiful. Kenneth's vows to me were wonderful and very heartfelt and the sand ceremony was a beautiful culmination of the two of us blending our lives together. The minister announced us Mr. and Mrs. Gosnell and everyone came over to congratulate us. The choir members did the same and many of them said "may God bless your marriage." Keith and Richard had done to the villiage to buy Fijian men skirts and also bought us a kava bowl, which they gave to us after the ceremony. Everyone was so wonderful.




Saturday, March 06, 2010

Jounal Entry March 6, 2006 - One Day to our Wedding


This was our journal entry from the day before our wedding...

Shonda:
After a very restful night due to cooler temp's and soothing rain, I woke up around 7:30 and began by relaxing in the room cushy chair and working on my vows. Kenneth got up and got ready and then went to the Kave Bowl to check e-mail - sending a hello to everyone.

Once ready, we went down and had breakfast with Omar and Caroline and then headed into town to fill out our legal documents so that we can be married in Fiji.


Ken:

The town reminded me of a small town USA. I was surprised by the amount of people and how dirty it was. However, the people are friendly and I felt right at home. We went to the market and bought a couple of necklaces and a mat (to be given as a gift). At one of the stores Caroline and Shonda bought Mary a pair of earrings that she liked. She was very thankful and seemed greatly appreciative of their gift.

After the trip to town it was back to Namale to finish planning the wedding.


Shonda:

Mary talked us through the various options and details and even let us pick our wedding day lunch and dinner menu. Kenneth was thrilled to be able to order a cheeseburger and friend chicken.

After all the arrangements were made, we back to our room (Loloma) to get ready for our scuba trip. Kenneth decided to go kayaking while I went diving with Caroline and Samantha and Dean. We even got to pass him on the trampoline on our way out - how cute!


Kenneth:


My kayak trip was fun but tough because I was constantly going against the current. First, I went out to the trampoline and jumped around a bit and then made my way to the beach in front of our Bure. I got to see many fish and even an eel. I want to go out again - but this time I will go when I am not against the tide. Maybe Shonda will go with me. I was glad to do this and glad that Shonda was out diving, but I missed her terribly!

Shonda:

Diving was an incredible experience! I actually wasn't afraid of losing my mask at all - I was more concerned with not losing the camera, touching coral I shouldn't, and accidentlly holding my breath. I just kept telling myself to relax and focus on the fish, and I'd be fine. I saw so many beautiful fish! I even saw two clown fish swimming around in an anemone. They were so cool! We found out afterwards that we had gone at a really choppy time. they saud we were very brave - and that we went down 35 feet for 30 minutes. I am really glad I went.


Kenneth:

Before dinner we decided to get one last look at possible places to have the ceremony. We looked at the Blowhole Deck, the Conference Center Deck, and the Beach. Although all of them are beautiful we decided to have our ceremony at the conference center deck. We just kep thinking about how we would love to have our ceremony at any of these places back home. They are all so beautiful and we can't wait for tomorrow :)


Shonda:
I second that!
Shonda:
We finished the evening in the Kava Bowl after dinner doing a little bowling, a little air hockey and are now back at out bure and Kenneth is getting ready to give me my second gift (pre-wedding). Last night he gave me the "key to my heart" willow creek figure and said he was giving me his heart. It was incredibly sweet!
We are both so relaxed, so excited about our wedding and so glad we chose a destination wedding at Namale!







Friday, March 05, 2010

Our Jounal Entry - March 5, 2006

Here was our jounal entry on March 5th - 2 days before our wedding:

Shonda:

Today was a spiritual awakening. We began our morning with a trip into the Nandi village to attend the Methodist church service. The people were incredibly welcoming and warm. The choir was unlike anything we had ever heard. The whole church only held about 125 people, but you would have thought 500 were singing because of the volume and harmony. It was an unbelievable expereince. I even recognized "Bringing in the Sheaves" and was able to sing along in English as they sung in Fijian.

The village chief welcomed the Namale guests, and the service continued in Fijian. We were fortunate to be there on a special day (the first Sunday in March) which was there service designed for giving - The Feast of the Tabernacle. It was truly amazing to see these people, who have so little, give with big smiles on their faces.

After church, we were invited by the minister to his home. We sat on a mat, handwoven by the ladies of the village, in an open almost empty room in the front od his home and particpated in a Kava ceremony.

We were amazed at how little he and all of the people of the villiage had and yet even more amazed at the hospitality, and his wife invited us all to stay for lunch. This was especially special as we had all just talked about how the Fijian minister's family lives by faith receiveing to live on only that given by the village to the church.

As we left the village we were shown a tent up on a hill and when we asked about it, were told that it was a place where the people of the village went to pray - what a testimony to worship!

Ken:

After Church the group headed back to the Kava Bowl to talk and relax. Then to lunch and then to the Dive Shop. This afternoon was our first expereince with Diving. After watching a short video we grabbed some gear and headed to the pool. I will never forget how silly we looked with our fins and how I started coughing when I got water in my snokel. We both passed the quiz given by the instuctor which was a series of underwater tasks at the bottom of the pool. This was a fun first experience for us both. I have no doubts that diving is in our future and Shonda is going to dive tomorrow with her new friend friend Caroline.

After changing for dinner we made our way down to the Blowhole Deck. the Sun had just sat and the sky was dark but beautiful. The Deck has an amazing panoramic view of the ocean. It also has a special treat of a Blowhole which shoot water up into the air about 15 to 20 feet. This has become a top option for where our wedding could be held.

After a short time hanging out with the other guests we had our dinner. After dinner we went to the Hot Tub and Pool with Omar and Caroline. The Hot Tub overlooks the ocean. We talked for a couple of hours and they invited us to their home in LA. sometime in the future.


Shonda:

We are now back in our bure, reminising about the awe and wonder of our first full day in Fiji and how pleased we are with our choice for our special day. In fact we've already said it will be hard to leave.

Thursday, March 04, 2010

Our Journal Entry the Days Before Our Wedding

Here is our journal entry from March 2/4 2006...

Shonda:

Our trip began on Thursday morning March 2nd with a wonderful chauffered trip to the airport with Ray. This was such a small but significant way to begin our journey.

We arrived in Los Angeles, took the shuttle over to the Sheraton Gateway, where Albert arranged to have us specially taken by ourselves to meet the four company. Our tour of LA consisted of a stop in Santa Monica where we were able to walk along the boardwalk and take in the beauty of the Pacific Ocean - which was a first for us both.

Next, we traveled through Beverly Hills stopping to peruse Rodeo Drive and see the famous "Pretty Woman" hotel and do window shopping in the stores such a Versace. From here we proceeded to Loehman's Chinese Theatre and the Hollywood Walk of Fame, where we saw various handprints of the stars including Marylin Monroe and even were fortunate enough to see the preparations for the Oscars (Academy Awards) which were scheduled for MArch 5, 2006. We concluded our tour at the Farmer's Market which we were very impressed by and took a few beautiful pictures as we shopped and ate.

The tour was perfectly times between our flight into LA and our flight to Fiji. The most memorable part of our flight into Fiji was the surprise of our inter-island seaplane flight! Wow - how spectacular. The views were magnificent!


Kenneth:

Then off to Namale. Upon arrival all we could say was "wow"! As we drove into the resort our ears were filled with music from the Namle Band. Wearing fresh flower lies we had received from McCoy Travel at the Nadi Airport, we were given moist towels and drinks while Simon preceeded to tell us about the Resort. We ate breakfast overlooking the Pacific ocean. After breakfast we were given a guided tour of the resort.

We were then taken to our room, the Loloma - a honeymoon bure. The cabin was right on the beach and we felt right at home. We spent the afternoon relaxing on the beach, enjoyed a pinic lunch and explored some fo the colorful sea life by the swimming hole together. This was a very romantic expereince.

Our evening culminated by particpating in a traditional kava ceremony with the other guests and staff, while the band serenanded us. The night concluded by sharing a candlelight dinner outside on a deck overlooking the ocean and returning to our room which had been prepared for us. We are now falling asleep together and listening to soft music and the gentle quiet rain outside. :) What a great first day!

Wednesday, March 03, 2010

An Anniversary Song for You



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I know one the things that we loved at Namale was the Namale Band Boys. Here a song to remind you of the songs that they sung to us each night at Dinner.

Tuesday, March 02, 2010

Get the Message!


This was a shirt that you gave me as a wedding present. Even after 4 years it is still true. I LOVE SHONDA!

Monday, March 01, 2010

Happy 4th Anniversary Video

This video so reminded me of so many things we got to do in Fiji. This year as we head into our 4th anniversary I want to remember about the week leading up to our wedding and then of course our wedding day. Watch the video and remember our trip together. I love you, baby!

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Our 4th Anniversary Weekend Getaway


Dear Bride -

We just celebrated our 4th year wedding anniversary with a quick overnight getaway to the Inn at Perry Cabin in St. Michael's MD. I think this weekend was a nice start to the celebration of our anniversary. I throughly enjoyed our night at the Inn as we watched our wedding video, wrote in our anniversary book about our very busy year, read our vows to each other, and enjoyed our dinner in the 4 star resturant.

Our lazy Saturday was fun as well. Looking at the small shops in St. Michael's reminded me of the little shops that we visited in Kuranda and in Port Douglas. I so love exploring with you. Then going to the outlets reminded me of the day that we spent in Williamsburg shopping when we first got together. All we needed was an Outback (That night is still so vidid in my mind.

Lastly, I enjoyed listing to the "our songs" cd you made for me and the cd with our first dance songs while we drove in the card. I also enjoyed you reading the cards and notes you gave me the day and the week that we got married.

For such a short trip we sure packed it full of meaningful experiences that put me back to the day that we took our vows and began out life together. I look forward to spending the next 46 years together.

Your Adoring Husband!

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Remembering Namale...


Dear Fijian Princess -

As we get close to celebrating our 4th Anniversary I find myself remembering back to our wedding week. As you know, one of the things that I enjoyed the most was the beach outside of our bure. I loved being able to hear the waves of the ocean splashing outside of our window. This was the perfect place to take my perfect soulmate. I can't believe that it has already been 4 years. To me it seems like it was just yesterday. We always said that with us life would fly by and it truly has. I love you so much and I am so glad that I married you! I love that have so many special memories and that we are always creating more.
Bula!

Sunday, February 14, 2010

8 GREATS 2010 Version #1

#1 - Our Wedding Day

This was the absolute best day of my life and our relationship. You took my breath away when you first appeared behind the fijian warriors. I was then and still am completely and madly in love with you. This day was perfect from the beginning (praying on the mountain) to the very end (when we became man and wife :)) I remember so vididly your vows to me and how special they were. I also remember our first song and dance and also getting to celebrate our wedding with our new friends and the fijians from the villiage. I love you so much and I am so glad that you became my wife.

Saturday, February 13, 2010

8 Greats 2010 Version #2

#2 - The Day Kaiden was Born



Sweetheart, I can't even begin to tell you how much this meant to me and how close I felt to you in the hospital. You are the best mom any of my children could hope for. You are so sweet and so loving and kaiden is so lucky to have you as his mom. I am really glad that we decided to do this and I know that Kaiden will always be our special little boy. You were so brave in the hopsital and I was so proud of you. All I cared about was letting you know how much you meant to me and how you just did an excellent job growing and nurturing our baby. I can't wait to see what Kaiden does in his life but I know that we will always cherish the time we were in the hospital and the day that Kaiden was born.


Friday, February 12, 2010

8 Greats 2010 Version #3

#3 - My Birthday Trip to Philadelphia.

This was such a surprise and it was literally the best gift I think I have ever been given. To get to see my team (Arizona Cardinals) play on Thanksgiving Night was just absolute amazing. To get to go to the game with the most beautiful woman on our baby's first Thanksgiving was PRICELESS. I enjoyed our conversation up to Philly and I enjoyed our time after the game. You are so complex and I enjoy all the parts of SHONDALAND. This is a Thanksgiving that I will never forget and you made it all possible. Thank you for being my super sexy football wife.

Thursday, February 11, 2010

8 Greats 2010 Version #4


#4 - Our First Family Vacation (2007)


DISNEY WORLD - Baby, this was truly a memorable experience. You planned every detail out for us and we had the most full week ever. We ate, we rode, we laughed, and we enjoyed ourselves to the fullest. I will never forget the look on your face as you watched the Spectomagic parade - you were like a precious little princess. I also will always remember the ice cream cookies that we found at the main street bakery. (This so reminded me of the cookies that we shared at Nigara Falls). I enjoyed staying at the Old Key West Resort and hanging out enjoying all that Disney had to offer me. :) Also, I remember our talks after a long day at the resort and the laughter we shared at the waterpark - (BTW - you looked so HOT is your swinsuit.) This also reminded me of one of our first dates at the waterpark in Williamsburg. I love going on vacation with you and I look forward to all the GREAT things we will get to see over the next 50 years!

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

8 Greats 2010 Version #5


#5 - Our First Kiss

Obviously we don't have a picture of that first kiss but the picture I have will have to do. :) I so love kissing you and I knew that our first kiss would change our lives forever and it did and I am so grateful. You have amazing lips that I could kiss forever. I was just so connected to you and I wanted us to share that moment together. It has been a defining moment in our lives. All the other kisses after (the kiss in times square on new years; the kiss at our wedding; the kiss on top of the mountain in Fiji; the kiss at the lighthouses in North Carolina; the Kisses in our new home and on the day Kaiden was born all follow this first kiss. There is nothing like a first kiss and our first kiss was AMAZING, just like you!

Tuesday, February 09, 2010

8 Greats 2010 Version #6



#6 - Our Weekend at Virgina Beach

Our unexpected trip to trade houses turned out to be a fanastic weekend and a great that I will always remember. We had so much fun as we just enjoyed our old stomping grounds for a few days. I really felt young and felt like we had a lot of fun eating at reasurants, walking along the beach, and trying to start having our baby. You were so beautiful that weekend and I remember us talking about creating our story. We have been to the beach many times but this weekend was truly a weekend to remember.

Monday, February 08, 2010

8 Greats 2010 Version #7


#7 - Our Anniversary Trip in Atlantic City
I have always enjoyed our anniversary trips and this year was no different. We have gone to:
1st - Las Vegas
2nd - Mertle Beach SC
3rd - Atlantic City NJ
This week was not what we expected but we really made the best of it and had some great times including our "Date Night" when we got to go out. You are a wonderful wife and I enjoy out special moments and one of the most special is remembering our wedding day and the vows that we shared with each other. It is hard to beleive that we are already approaching 4 years of marriage but it has all been GREAT. I love you sweetheat and I simply love being married to you! (One month and counting to our 4th anniversary)

Sunday, February 07, 2010

8 Greats 2010 Version #8

#8 - New Years in Times Square -

This was one special memory. One Thing I have always loved about us is the fact our beleif and HOPE in a new beginning. I love celebrating the beginning of 2003 in New York together. I loved seeing Times Square, Central Park, The Statue of Liberty, Rockfeller Center, and Radio City Music Hall all for the first time with you by my side. I love you so much and I truly love our 8 Greats!

Saturday, February 06, 2010

My Valentine

Dear Sweetheart,


As we approach Valentine's Day this year I want to tell you about the 2010 Version of our 8 Greats. I will speak about one each day and talk about our "best great" on Valentine's Day. I love you so much and I so glad that you are my Valentine!

Saturday, January 16, 2010

Christmas in january

Dear christmas surprise

we just celebrated our christmas in January with the kids. I think this will be a new nice tradition. The thing I liked the most was recording our memories in our book. I love Christmas with you no matter when it is.