Thursday, August 28, 2008

Our Summer Trip to Meet the Family

Dear Road Warrior -

Last week we went to Gaithburg TN to meet my parents and have our summer vacation. We had a good time. We stayed at Eagle's Ridge Resort - In this Cabin!







I enjoyed the cabin, but mostly I enjoyed the hottub... :)

We particpated in many activites. We rode go-carts; shopped, especially for quilts, went to DollyWood and my favorite activity was...

I know you enjoyed the part when the cowboy picked you out of the entire crowd and threw you a flower...it just amazes me how you always get selected....

But seriously, I really enjoyed showing our new baby off to his grandparents. I know they have been looking forward to that for many years. Now it is our family and no one can ever take that away from us.

I know that this was no Disneyworld, but I had a lot of fun and I really enjoyed our family this week.

Love Ace


Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Our Special Child

I love this little boy so much and I am so thankful that we had him together!

Friday, August 08, 2008

Your Birthday Date

Dear Lion King -

Yesterday we had our date night for your birthday. I took you to see the Lion King at the Kennedy Center.

Although the evening wasn't quite what I had planned. I really did enjoy taking you out and being reminded of the shows that we saw at Disney. I will never forget going to DisneyLand on our honeymoon and it being the 50th anniversary of Disneyland. It was just proof that we were meant to be together.

I love you now and in 50 years!

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Your 29th Birthday

Dear Birthday Girl -

I just wanted to write you a little note on your birthday. I know that neither of us enjoys getting older but I want you to know how much I enjoy that you have picked me to grow old with. I remember how much we used to talk about how we would sit together when we were old and think about all the "greats" and memories that we had collected over the years. Well baby, we are making it happen. We have purchased a home, and now made a baby, and we are raising a family and taking family vacations.

Sweetheart, I just want you to know that you are more beautiful to me today than the day that I first feel in love with you. I hope for you that you will always feel my love and know how special you are to me, God and your family. I really am the luckiest person in the world to have you as a star on my lapel.

I love you!

Saturday, July 05, 2008

4th of July

Dear Wife -

This 4th of July we took the kids downtown DC to watch the fireworks on the mall. Although the day did not go as we had planned, I still think everyone had a good time and during the trip I realized all over again why I fell in love with you. I love you because of how you love your family and want things to be just perfect... :)

Here is just a sample of things we did on this 4th of July:

  • Watched the parade
    1. Created candles with beeswax in the white house visitor center
    2. Signed the declaration of independance as the Maryland delegation.
    3. Went to the Archives and saw the actual declaration of independance and looked at a picture of the people that we acted as when we signed.
    4. Relaxed at the hotel
    5. Watched fireworks over the white house
    You make everyday a celebration!


    Happy 4th of July

    Wednesday, June 25, 2008

    My Trip to Missouri

    Dear World Traveler -

    I am so sad that you are not able to be here with me on this trip back to Missouri. I so wanted us to be able to show off our little one. I am so proud of you for giving me a son. I often thoguht about this day, but in many ways never thought it would happen. Now, because of you - I will have a legacy.

    I just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you and that I will be home soon.

    Ace

    Friday, June 13, 2008

    Kale's Last Day of School

    Dear Teacher -

    Today we celebrated the kids last day of school and specifically Kale's promotion from 5th grade. It is hard to believe that we have a baby and a child in middle school and high school. You are such a great mom that you should have had a bunch of more kids - but they should all have been and should all be with me...

    I know that we don't what the future holds, but I must admit that I do like living life with you. You make every day an adventure and you truly are my best friend!

    Ace

    Tuesday, June 10, 2008

    One Week Old


    Dear New Mommy -
    It is hard to beleive that Kaiden is one week old today. He is growing so fast. I am still so tired over the events of the last week and I know that you are also. I also know that we are going to miss this so I am trying to enjoy each moment!
    I really enjoyed taking care of you in the hospital. Here are the things that I will remember the most about his birth and our hospital stay...
    • Seeing him cry for the first time - I was so proud of you and how you nurtured him for 9 months.
    • taking our walks around the hallway and showing off our new prize.
    • you reading his first book - the book that I bought for him about first steps.
    • Waking up in the middle of night when he started to cry and watching you be right there to take care of him
    • Crispy Cream Donuts on our way home...
    • his first visitors and everyone saying that he was so handsome and so perfect!
    • Me being able to take care of you and be there when you needed it.
    • The water in labor - I swear it was enought to fill a baby pool.

    I just love you so much and I look forward to all the birthdays that we will have with this new little man.

    New Dad

    Friday, June 06, 2008

    Coming Home

    Today we left the hospital -

    I can't say that is was the most pleasant place that we have ever stayed, but we are leaving with quite a gift. I arranged for a stork to be placed in the yard annoucing the arrival of Kaiden. I also wanted you to know how much I am glad that we have this new addition so when I went to the store to get your pain medication I got you a dozen yellow roses.

    Shonda, I love you so much and I love the life that we are creating together. I know that the next 18 years will fly by with you by my side.

    Ace -

    Thursday, June 05, 2008

    Wednesday, June 04, 2008

    Day One...

    Amazing -

    We have just completed the first day of Kaiden Edward Gosnell's life and I couldn't be more thrilled and happy. A lot has happened over these first 24 hours. He has taken his first breath, gotten his first bath, received his first shots, and has been held by the most beautiful woman in the world.

    I know that the last nine months have been difficult, but I want you to know that you have handled them with grace and beauty. I also, know that the labor did not go as you expected it to, but I am so proud of you! You grew a very healthy 9 pound 7 ounce little boy and delivered him safely into the world. I just couldn't be prouder of you and now I want you to get healthy and rest so that we can leave the hospital and start this new phase of our life together.

    I think he is the most wonderful baby ever and everyone that sees him talks about how handsome he is and how wonderful he looks - they have even said that we have made a perfect baby. I don't know how perfect he is, but I do know that he is perfect for us and that you have just been perfect through this whole thing.

    I must admit that the last couple of days have been very stressful, but I am just soaking in each moment because I know how special and how long I waited for a moment like this. I love you with all my heart and I know that we were meant to share this moment together.

    I am so proud of you and I know that Kaiden is lucky to have mom like you. I know that I am sure lucky that you are my wife.

    Ace

    Tuesday, June 03, 2008

    He is Here!


    This is the e-mail that I just sent out to our friends and family...
    All - After a long day of labor my wife did delivered Kaiden Edward late this afternoon. He weighed 9 pounds 8 ounces and measured over 22 inches long. After stuggling in labor most of the day the baby's heart rate drop significantly and we all decided at the doctors encouragement to have an emergency C section. My wife will be in the hospital till Friday The baby is doing very well and his heart rate is steady and strong. We have just recently been admitted to a room and the baby and his mother is resting after a very long and difficult day. I want to thank everyone for their thoughts, prayers and warm wishes today. I will send out a picture soon.

    Monday, June 02, 2008

    One More Day!!!!

    Dear New Mommy to be...

    We just finished at the doctor's office and we all decided that you should be induced tomorrow. They told us today that the baby weighs over 9 pounds. I can't believe that as we watched the ultrasound that tomorrow I could be holding the little guy in my arms.

    I must admit that I am a little sad to see your pregancy come to an end. Here would be my 8 greats from the last nine months...

    1. The first ultrasound and pictures of little Kaiden. I cried a little when I saw his picture and knew that he appeared to be healthy.
    2. Our trip to South Carolina - I enjoyed spending time with my beautiful pregenant wife. I especially liked our special moments with increased passion... :)
    3. Cutting up veggies to handle your cravings. I really enjoyed trying to take care of you as you were taking care of our baby.
    4. The trip to the hospital. I really enjoyed the last moments of your pregenancy. I enjoyed talking to you about our pregency and about our little boy.
    5. The day you told me that you were pregenant. The way that you told me was very sweet and I loved the baloons and the lovely outfit.
    6. Getting the baby's room ready! I really enjoyed all the time that we spend putting up the crib and decorating the babies room. I know that Kaiden will love it and he will always know that we have a special place just for him.
    7. Doctor's Trips. I really loved hearing the heartbeat for the first time. I was so excited and I just couldn't wait to see this little one.
    8. Deciding on a name. I love going to the bookstore and looking through books together. I also liked playing with all the names - even girl ones like Kiearra Channel....

    I love you so much and I can't wait for us to have this baby.

    Ace

    Thursday, May 29, 2008

    What is in a Name...

    Dear Sweet Rose,

    Today we were looking at the parent.com site and searched on the name of our new son to be...Kaiden. Here is what they said about his name:

    Caden...Kaiden is a variation of Caden
    ORIGIN: English
    MEANING: Spirited

    One of the contemporary names with an "en" ending. Debuted on the popularity chart in 1992, quickly climbing among the top 100.

    VARIATIONS
    Cadence

    ALTERNATIVES
    Kadin Kadyn Kayden Cayden Kaiden Caiden Kaden Kaeden Cadan Caeden

    NICKNAMES
    Cade

    Edward
    ORIGIN: Old English
    MEANING: Wealth protector

    Greatly influenced during the 11th century by Edward the Confessor, who became king of England before the Norman Conquest. He's considered a saint by the Roman Catholic Church and the Eastern Orthodox Church. Remained a popular royal name in England. A literary name used by William Shakespeare in several plays.

    ALTERNATIVES : Eduard Edouard

    NICKNAMES: Eddie Ed Ted Ned

    FAMOUS Edwards
    Edward Villella (ballet dancer) Edward R. Murrow (newscaster) Edward Kennedy (senator) Edward Woodward (actor) Edward Burns (actor/writer) Edward G. Robinson (actor) Edward Norton (actor)

    I think this is a very fitting name: spirited or beloved companion in some books, wealthy protector.

    I love you and I love the name that we have from being together: soulmate.

    Ace

    Wednesday, May 28, 2008

    Our Memorial Day Weekend

    Dear Weekender -

    I just wanted to write you a short note telling you how much I enjoyed our weekend together. It is truly a dream come true to host a bunch of our friends (and their kids) at our beautiful big home over a long weekend.

    I really enjoyed watching you talk with the other moms. I also enjoyed fixing the hotdogs and hamburgers for everyone. We really do a have beautiful home and I love the fact that we share it with our friends and family.

    I love you and I look forward to all of our special weekends!

    Your Weekend Lover!

    Thursday, May 22, 2008

    Counting the Days

    Dear Mom To Be -

    I just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you today and that I am counting the days till when little Kaiden comes. I know that he is getting ready and is going to come any day.

    This is a picture from the second shower for our baby - the one at your work. You are so beautiful and you look so happy. I want you to know that you have made me the happiest man in the world. You are the love of my life and you are going to be the best mom this little boy could ever have hoped for.

    I love you with all my heart now and forever.

    Ace

    Saturday, April 26, 2008

    Our Baby Shower in Our Neighborhood

    Dear Mommy to Be -


    This weekend our friends gave you a shower for our new baby. It just goes to show how much you are loved....


    Tuesday, April 15, 2008

    The Greatest Show on Earth

    Dear Ring Master -

    This past weekend we took the kids to the circus. I believe that you had the most fun. I enjoyed watching the show and what a show it was:



    • There were tigers....how scary.

    • There were clowns...how funny

    • There were dogs...how cute

    • There were zebra's and horses...how beatuiful

    • There were chinese acrobrats...how amazing

    • There were people shot out of a cannon...how dangerous

    And then there was you and our family...How Wonderful!

    I love you and I love the memories that we make together.

    Your Clown


    Saturday, April 05, 2008

    24 Hour Prayer Retreat - My Prayer For You!

    Dear Amazing -

    I hope this e-mail finds you well. I wanted to let you know how much you mean to me and to tell you that you are my soulmate. This year during the 24 hour prayer retreat I have prayed for you and will continue to pray for you. I wanted you to know what I prayed about:

    I prayed for Strength for you - I know that during these last days of your pregency that you find everything difficult. I prayed that you would allow God's strength to be your strnegth at this time. I prayed that you would find your stength in our relationship with God and that you would continue to allow God's wisdom to be your wisdom. I want you to know that you never walk alone and that I am here for you and I will always be here for you.


    I prayed for Forgiveness - I know that I sometimes that I am not the best husband and that I have hurt you in your heart. I aksed that God forgive me of when I hurt you and help me to be the kind of man ahtat you could fall in love with. I know that you deserve the best and I want you to experience my deep love for you. Please forgive me of when I have hurt you and know that I love you will all my heart!



    I prayed a prayer of praise for you. I am so thankful that you are part of my life. I love sharing life with you. My life is so full and so complete with you in it. I love to hear you sing and I am so thankful for all the little things that you do.



    I prayed for wisdom. I asked God to reveal to me how I could better serve you as your husband. I am thankful for our friendship and I want to serve you in anyway that brings us closer to the love of God.



    Thanks for all you do and for who you are.

    Ace


    Friday, March 28, 2008

    Baby Registry and More

    Dear Baby Shopper -

    This weekend we finished our tour of baby registries across the world. We now have registered our baby at Target; Babies R Us; and Buy Buy Baby. It is a bit overwhelming - all the things that we need for this new person in our life. However, I have a feeling that he will be alot like me in the fact that all he really needs is your love!

    I love you so much, and I love the family and the life that we are creating. You are truly my one and only soulmate and I know that we will spend the rest of lives together. I truly love you now and forever -

    Ace

    Sunday, March 16, 2008

    Our Annual Easter Pinic

    Dear Spring -

    Yesterday we celebrated Easter and our annual Easter pinic with the kids. This is a tradition that we have done for almost 6 years now. I still remember our first Easter pinic downtown next to the Potomic looking at the Washington Monument. Then we took the kids on a paddleboat ride. We finished the day like we always do - searching for eggs.

    This year was still a little cold so we had the pinic on the floor in our house. Then we went out and hide the eggs from the kids. I think we all had a good time. I know that you were not able to be as activity as you have been in the past but I want you to know that I love our family and I love our family traditions.

    You bring so much joy and spring into my life.

    Ace

    Thursday, March 06, 2008

    Our Day in Charlestown

    Dear Southern Bell -

    Yesterday we took a day trip to Charlestown SC. I enjoyed the car ride but I enjoyed the carriage ride that we took through the city. As we were pulled along in our carriage it reminded me so much of our first carriage ride in NYC.





    We then walked to the bay front and found a place called MAgnolia's for Dinner. This was truly a southern meal - I was able to get my fried chicken. Someone said that this is the best fried chicken ever - but I know that the best fried chicken I have ever had was the one that you prepared for my birthday when we were first together. We even found out that this restruant is in the book 1,000 places to see before you die....


    I love the places that we see together.


    Your Leading Man

    Wednesday, March 05, 2008

    Our Anniversary Day and Dinner



    Dear Bride -

    Yesterday we celebrated our anniversay day and dinner. You started off the day by giving me a surprise gift and spa retreat. I was going to get a Hot Stone Massage and you were going to be able to get a pregenceny massage from a place called "Her Boby and Soul."

    The massage was terrific but what was even better was the fact that we were able to get the massages in the same room - it reminded me so much of fiji....

    Then we came back and I dressed up in my wedding day suit and we went to dinner at Greg Norman's Autrailian Grill on the bayfront. I think people were looking at me a little strange because I was so dressed up but I didn't care because I was off in your world - you are all that I care about.

    At dinner I gave you my gift or reading the vows that I made to you on our wedding day. I also gave you a necklace with two diamonds in a teardrop to symbolize the two years that we have been married.

    I love you so much and I am so glad that we got married.

    Monday, March 03, 2008

    Our 2nd Anniversary Trip - Mrytle Beach SC

    Dear Honeymooner -

    I am writing this post from our hotel room at the Sherton Broadway Plantation resort. We have decided to spend out second anniversary in Myrtle Beach SC - one of the 1,000 places that we said that we would go in our lifetime.

    The resort is very nice and today we have had the priverage of laying around the pool and playing ping pong and shuffleboard.

    Since being here, we have looked at some houses, have gone to the beach. This is one of the things that I love about us. We are always having fun no matter if we are laying around the pool or going out on a night on the town.

    It is hard to believe that it was 2 years ago this week that we got married. I love you so much and I can't wait to see what the next 49 years brings to us.

    Happy Anniversary My Love - I love you madly.

    Thursday, February 14, 2008

    Happy Valentine's Day


    Dear Valentine -


    I just wanted to tell you how much I love you and especially how much I love you today!


    Please see below just some of the reasons why I love you!!!

    • I love you because you are beautiful.

    • I love you because you are a great friend

    • I love you because you are fun to be with.

    • I love you because together we create wonderful memories (like 8 greats)

    • I love you because you are smart.

    • I love you because you a wonderful wife.

    • I love you because I can count on you.

    • I love you because you are good with money

    • I love you because we can get "lost" together.

    • I love you because you are having my baby.

    • I love you because you love God

    • I love you because you bring out the best in me...

    • And I love you becuase you are AMAZING!

    Happy Valentine's Day


    Ace

    Tuesday, January 29, 2008

    It's a Boy!

    Dear Mom to Be...

    Yesterday we went to the doctor and found out that we are having a baby boy! I am so happy and I am so happy that we are doing this together. I just can't wait for this baby to get here. I love you so much and I am so looking forward to raising this baby together.
    Dad To Be

    Friday, January 11, 2008

    Our Eight Greats as of the Start of 2008

    Here is a list of my Eight Great List (January 2008)
    1. Our Wedding Day in Fiji - standing overlooking the ocean and climbing the mountain (2006)

    2. Our First Kiss (2001)

    3. New Years in Time Square (2002/2003)

    4. The night you told me that you were having my Baby (2007)

    5. Daytona Beach - Race Tracks and the Beach on our First Family Vacation (2007)

    6. Dancing in Wal-Mart looking at cards (2001)

    7. Seeing the Grand Canyon together at Sunset (2007) 1st Anniversary

    8. Ft. Lauderdale and the Bahamas and the proposal (2005)

    Wednesday, January 02, 2008

    A Favorite Picture of You


    I was cleaning out my phone and I found this picture...I really love this picture!
    I really love you and how beaituful you are.
    Ace

    Tuesday, January 01, 2008

    A New Year and a New Start

    Dear Fresh Beginnings -

    Here are some of my goals for us in 2008

    • To be gentle with you and the kids with my words
    • To kiss you goodnight every night.
    • To wake up next to you every morning
    • To pray for you and the kids everyday
    • To accept you as you are and expect nothing in return
    • To treat you like a princess
    • To tell you I love you everyday
    • To really kiss you at least once every day
    • To be the man that you admire and respect.

    I love you and I look forward to a great 2008.

    Monday, December 31, 2007

    New York - What a Family Trip

    Dear New Yorker -

    I so enjoyed the trip we just took with the kids to New York. This was truly a great experience. To be able to see Times Square, the Statue of Liberty, Central Park, and the light show in the Grand Central Terminal. These are wonderful sites.



    Every trip I take to New York, I am reminded of our special trips to New York. Like when I gave you your ring in the middle of times square. I told you then that you are the most amazing person and I couldn't think of a better place to give you your ring than in the most amazing city and in the most amazing place in the city. We will always be able to share the cup of noodles.

    I also am reminded of our first trip to New York. The way that you planned the trip and you helped me to fulfill a lifetime dream of being in NEw York for the New Year. I can still remember it...It looked a lot like...


    Well, I look forward to many more trips, but I will always cherish these memories....

    I love you now more than I did then...



    Wednesday, December 26, 2007

    My Perfect Christmas Gift

    Dear Christmas Present -

    I wanted to thank you for making this Christmas the "best christmas ever" according to a couple little voices that we know. This Christmas was a very good Christmas. I really enjoyed opening presents with you and I really enjoyed our special Christmas as well.

    However, I just want you to know that you are my very best Christmas present. You truly are gift and I do appreciate you and all you do. You are so special to me and I love you with my whole heart.

    I love you Amazing -

    Ace

    Saturday, December 22, 2007

    Our Griswold House

    Dear Ms. Griswold -

    We found out last week that we did not win the light contest in our neighborhood. I know that you were very sad, but I want you to know that as long as we have each other we really do have first place. Thank you for working so hard to make our home warm for Chrstmas. You really do light up my world!

    You Runner Up -

    Friday, December 14, 2007

    Our Christmas Traditions

    Dear Ms. Christmas -

    I just wanted to take a moment to tell you how much I enjoy our Christmas traditions. This past weekend we went to Gaver's Christmas Farm and picked out our "live" Christmas tree for the year. I am so glad that we started this tradition. It is so much fun to search the grounds and pick the right tree for our family. This we spent the night decorating it and putting on the lights. It looks so beautiful!

    Other Christmas Traditions I love:

    • Decorating our special tree
    • Driving through the Christmas light display
    • Opening our special gifts on Christmas Eve
    • Going to a Christmas Eve Service
    • Going down and seeing the National Tree and standing by the Yule Log.
    • Having sex on Christmas day - oh, well that is a tradition that we should start...:)

    I love you and I look forward to all the traditions that we have together....

    Your Naughty Elf

    Wednesday, December 05, 2007

    O Christmas Tree


    It is Christmas Season and I love it. Yesterday we purchased a new 9 foot tree for our family Christmas tree. It looks so beautiful and better yet, the one who decorated it looks the most beautful of all. You truly are my Christmas angel and I love lofe with you!

    Your Secret Santa

    Friday, November 23, 2007

    Thanksgiving Day Football

    Dear Cheerleader -

    Yesterday, I got to spend thanksgiving day with your family. I am thankful for so many things...
    • I am thankful for your love

    • I am thankful for friendship and your support

    • I am thankful for the kids that you have blessed me with

    • I am thankful for our home

    • I am thankful for you as my wife

    • I am thankful for our jobs

    • I am thankful for our church and for your spirituality

    • I am just thankful for you!

    I also thankful that you got to watch me play football yesterday. I really wish you could have seen me play when I was in high school. I would have just done better knowing that you were there cheering me on.


    I love you and I am thankful that you are my biggest fan!

    Tuesday, November 20, 2007

    The Sweetest Place on Earth

    Dear Hershey Kiss -

    This past weekend we enjoyed a little family time at the Eastern Christian Convention. I think that this experience was a real breakthough for us. I really enjoyed being able to attend these workshops and sessions with you by my side. You truly are my best friend and my confidant.

    I also enjoyed our family time. The time at Boyd Bears, the meals and of course the time that we spend around the Hershey fire place.... Yay, warmth.....






    Then there were all the chocolate and the chocolate events. I know you didn't get to enjoy the chocolate because this baby like salty rather than chocolate but you still got to enjoy the chocolate events. Events like Candy Lane and the Sweet Lights...


    Sweetheart, you are my best friend and you really have brought sweetness to my life. Thank you for being so yummy.

    Your Hershey Bar -

    Friday, October 26, 2007

    Our Love Story

    We made up a fun game for the couples who are attending our "Vows" event tonight. This was our love story!

    Our Love Story

    It all began __17_ years ago. We had both decided to go out with friends one evening.
    (number)
    It was a beautiful night and it goes without saying that the stars must have been perfectly
    aligned. I remember so well, looking around the crowded room when our _noses___ met.
    (body part-plural)
    We both knew it was _moody__ at first sight.
    (emotion)

    Oh, how we loved spending time together. In those days, hours seemed like __century____
    (length of time)
    until the next time we would see each other. Our favorite date had to be the time we went
    to _Sea World__. What fun! We talked for hours and laughed until our stomachs hurt! I
    (place)
    still remember it like it was yesterday.


    And of course there was our first fight. Who can forget that? She got so mad because I
    forgot to _smell___ her. I felt really _simple___, but when I said I was sorry, she quickly
    (verb-present tense) (adverb-without ‘ly’)
    forgave me and all was right with the world again.


    What a surprise when I met her family. It was Thanksgiving and her mother had made a 20 pound _Chimichanga_. How strange! The only person in her family that was a bit odd
    (food)
    was her _Grandmother's cousin. I’m not sure, but I think there might have been too much cooking
    (relative)
    sherry in her _Death by Chocolate_. Holiday’s might be a little rough, but my love is worth it!
    (dessert)

    And I have to talk about our wedding day! That is a day I will never forget! It was so
    __Colorful__. All of our friends and __Fijians_____ were there, but you know I could have been
    (descriptive word) (group of people)
    just as happy if it were only the two of us. I remember how _cuddly___ she looked in her
    (adverb)
    wedding dress. She took my breath away. Our vows were so romantic and special. We
    had __swam___ them ourselves. But the best part was when the preacher told us we could
    (verb-past tense)
    _sing____. I think fireworks went off. The happiest day of my life is when he pronounced
    (verb-present tense)
    us _cardboard__ and wife.
    (noun)


    Now I have to be careful what I write, but I have to mention that our honeymoon was Phenomenal!! We made love _7____ times and even once in the _Olive Garden_! One of
    (number) (place)
    my favorite memories is when she dressed up like __Elmo___ and called me
    (fictional character)
    _Willy Wonka____. Oh, to be young and in love. These are memories we will never forget.
    (name)

    Then End

    Wednesday, October 24, 2007

    One Of Our Wedding Songs -

    I was just thinking about this song today. I just wanted you to know!

    I love you and I am glad that I said "I do" to you!

    Monday, October 22, 2007

    7 Weeks and a Letter from you - how Impressive


    Dad,

    I am growing fast! Last Thursday I was only at this stage,

    7 weeks - Facial features are visible, including a mouth and tongue. The eyes have a retina and lens. The major muscle system is developed, and the unborn child practices moving. The child has its own blood type, distinct from the mother's. These blood cells are produced by the liver now instead of the yolk sac.


    but in 3 days, I'll look like this!! 8 weeks - The unborn child, called a fetus at this stage, is about half an inch long. The tiny person is protected by the amnionic sac, filled with fluid. Inside, the child swims and moves gracefully. The arms and legs have lengthened, and fingers can be seen. The toes will develop in the next few days. Brain waves can be measured.

    So, do you love me yet? I love you. Oh, and mom says to tell you she loves you too!


    Dear Child -


    You are growing so fast and I am counting down the days until you get here. You are already making yourself known in the cravings that you are having for food. You have turned mom from a chocolate loving to a salt love. You have quite the taste I can already see.


    We are starting to tell other people about your coming. We have told your grandparents and your brother and sister. We have also told a few friends who have been able to know because of the glow that you have put on your mother's face.

    Even this past weekend we could tell the difference that you have made with your grandmother on your mom's side. She was very supportive and very loving to your mom and I can tell that your grandparents are already excited about your coming as well.


    I know that God has great plans for you and I am thankful to Him everyday for giving you to me. I can't wait to see you grow and develop. I love you very much and tell mom I love her too.


    Your Dad!








    Friday, October 19, 2007

    My Hopes and Dreams for the Baby

    Dear Sweetheart,

    I wrote this the other day thinking about our baby and I wanted to share it with you...

    1. I hope that you are healthy your whole life.
    2. I hope that you will find a dream and pursue it with all your heart
    3. I hope you experience great joy
    4. I hope that you know God fully in your life.
    5. I hope that you will always value wisdom
    6. I hope that you realize and appreciate real relationships
    7. I hope that you beleive that you really can do anything.
    8. I hope that you accepts your parents friendship as an adult
    9. I hope that you feel true and deep love.
    10. I hope that you will always be safe from harm.

    Your soon to be Dad.

    Monday, October 01, 2007

    Our Little Package

    Dear Mother to Be...

    I can't beleieve the news that you gave me yesterday. You told me that we are expecting a baby. I am so happy and I am so thrilled that we are doing this together. You are amazing and you have amazed me again by giving me this good news. I can't wait to see what the next nine months will bring to us. I love you so much and I am so glad that we are together. You are by far the best thing that has ever happened to me!

    Love a soon to be Father -

    Saturday, September 22, 2007

    Vows KickOff

    My Oath -

    Sweetheart, I could not be prouder of us. This past weekend we kicked off the "vows" study at our house. I can't believe that it is finally a reality.

    I remember so many times over the past few years where we talked about reaching out and helping other couples - well, baby that has now become a reality. I love the fact that together we can help others from waht we expereinced.

    I know that we have much to learn about our vows, but I am so thankful for the committments and vows that we have made to each other. I am so glad that you are the one that I have given my heart too...

    I love you and I look forward to what the next few months will bring!

    Your Devoted Husband.

    Wednesday, September 12, 2007

    Just an EveryDay With You!

    Dear, My Every Day Girl -

    I have been thinking lately of just how much I enjoy spending the every days with you. I know that many times on this blog I talk about special days or events, and I do love our special days together. But, more than our special days, I love our everyday's!

    I love talking to you on the work everyday
    I love raising the kids with you everyday
    I love waking up with you everyday
    I love taking walks with you everyday
    I love looking at your smile everyday
    I love kissing your lips everyday
    I love exploring life with you everyday
    I love eating your wondeful meals everyday.
    I love loving you everyday!

    I do love you and I love you everyday more than I loved you the day before!

    Just your everyday guy.

    Tuesday, August 21, 2007

    Our Beach Weekend

    Dear Concert in the Wind -


    This past weekend we celebrated the end of our summer by having our annual beach weekend. This weekend was not like we would have wanted but we were able to swap houses with Patrica and were able to enjoy the beach in Virginia.

    I do love going to the beach with you! I enjoy exploring new worlds and enjoying the peace and quiet of the water washign up on shore and knowing that I am with my soulmate. Or, sitting on the lawn next to the ocean and listening to concert music or watch a magic show. You truly are my little bit magic and you bring such music into my life

    Going to Virginia reminded me a lot of where we have been in our relationship and exactly how far we have come. I never dreamed I would find someone like you in my life, but I am so glad and happy that I did. When we got together I thought you were amazing and now all these years later I still think you are amazing.

    Oh - and another amazing part of this weekend was our special night at the beach when you were wearing your cowboy hat :)

    You are quite the little cowgirl....yippie kia yah!

    I love you now more than ever and I look forward to watching many more sunsets on the beach!




    Friday, August 10, 2007

    Our Disney Summer

    Dear Ariel -

    I want to thank you for working so hard on our first family vacation. We truly created a memory that we will always have. Some of my favorite memories are:

    • Eating at all the Disney Resorts but especially OHana looking out over Snow White's Castle.
    • The Late night Disney Hours - especailly walking around Epcot with the kids asleep.
    • Riding Soarin and Test Track - you always know how to get my motor running.
    • Your comment about "Are those people real" when we were getting off of the Viking ride.
    • Sitting in the hot tub at our resort.
    • Riding in the front of the monorail.
    • Walking to our car the last night after Epcot had closed.

    You are my favorite memory and I love that you are my little Arial.

    Thursday, May 24, 2007

    Your Sweet Note -

    Dear Sweetheart,

    Thank you for your sweatheart for your sweet note:

    Have I told you lately how much I love my blog? Well I LOVE MY BLOG VERY VERY VERY MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!What an incredibly special treat to go in there today and find so many new posts. I just re-read almost all of your posts to me. This was such an incredibly special gift and a special collection of memories.. You are really the best, you know that? I really love you!

    I love you very much!

    Monday, May 21, 2007

    Our Family Weekend



    Dear Zoo Keeper,

    I just wanted you to know what a wonderful weekend that we had together. I really enjoyed our Saturday at the Baltimore zoo and going to the movie. I love how we can take just a few hours and we can create a memory that lasts a lifetime.
    I think the kids really had a great time and I think this weekend will always be a memory that they will have. I mean how many times have they gotten to go to the openning weekend to a movie, especially a movie like SHREK!


    I really do love you and I love our family. I am so looking forward to the next few years together as we continue to grow and develop as a family.

    Thanks for being my little zoo keeper!

    The Great Ape!

    Tuesday, May 15, 2007

    My Little Star

    Dear Super Star,

    Today we found out that you got the promotion that you have been waiting for for almost 2 years. I am so proud of what you have been able to accomplish. You have gone from nothing to now being a leader in your field and you have done it all by yourself. You should be extremely proud of your accomplishments. You are a true leader and I am so very lucky to have you in my life.

    Shonda, you really do handle things with grace and beauty. You have handled yourself and every obstacle that you have faced over the past 5 years in your job with excellence and I am glad that your boss and your co-workers understand what a wonderful person that have as a part of their team.

    I know that you can accomplish anything you set your mind to and I know that you have such a bright future - so bright that I have to wear shades all the time :) I love you and I am so proud of you!

    P.S. I can't wait for your next promotion so we can go back and get some more Brewsters Ice Cream.

    I love you, my super star!

    Ace

    Monday, May 14, 2007

    Happy Mother's Day

    Dear Best Mom Ever!

    Yesterday we celebrated Mother's Day and I want to post just a short note telling you that I really do believe you to be the best mom ever. I love the way that you care for the kids and the way that create special memories just for them. Yesterday we gave you small tokens (a bracelet, a candle, a cd, a key chain) but you give us all so much all the time. I am happy to be by your side raising our family.

    I hope you enjoyed your day.

    Your biggest fan!

    Friday, May 11, 2007

    Our First Peter Lik


    My Amazing Work of Art,
    Today we went and purchased our first work of art and I love it! This is a beach that we stayed on when we were on our honeymoon and I cannot look at this picture and not think about that wonderful adventure. We stumbled upon this piece (number 488 out of 950) and together we chose to dive into the art collection business.
    I really love that we accomplish great things together. You have helped me to accomplish so much in such a short time. I really do love you and I love the "greats" that we share together.
    You truly are my best friend and the most beautiful piece of art that I ever will see.
    Ace

    Wednesday, April 18, 2007

    Baby Shopping - Part One

    Dear Mommy to Be -

    Yesterday we went to our neighbor's house to a sale. This sale was special because it had a lot of baby stuff and together we picked out the bedding and curtains for our babies room. I know that we are still in the process of preparing for this event, but I really enjoyed watching you look and think about what you wanted for this baby. I also know that we both have some fear about adding another child to our family, but somehow I sense that together we would make it just right and it would be like everything else - jsut perfect!

    I love you so much and my love for you continues to grow. I look forward to what the future holds for us.

    Your True Love

    Friday, April 13, 2007

    Our First Day of Spring

    Dear Lady Bug,

    This weekend we spent in the yard perparing our yard for summer. We bought mulch and cleaned out the flower beds. I just know that we are going to have many memories in this house and in this neighborhood. I can't wait to expereince all parts of the year in our new house. I know that in this house we will laugh and share in our wonderous times. I told this weekend "that you have made my dreams come true." I truly have dreamed about a day just like the day that we experienced. I really do love life with you.

    Your Man Bug

    Wednesday, March 28, 2007

    Our New Big Screen TV

    Dear Amazing,

    I just wanted to drop you a note telling you how much I am thinking about you today.

    This past weekend I was able to get our big screen up and running in the basement. I enjoyed watching Amazing Race and 24 with you on it, but more than that I enjoyed holding you in my arms on the couch.

    You have really helped fulfill my every dream and I really love you for it. I just want you to know that I am always thinking about you and I love you more and more each day.

    Your Biggest Fan

    Monday, March 12, 2007

    Our First Anniversary

    Dear Showgirl,


    It is really hard to believe that we have already been married for an entire year. The year has come and gone so quickly. It seems like just yesterday that we were standing on the beach in Fiji getting married. Now a year later we arranged for a week long trip to Las Vegas.

    I enjoyed seeing the hotels, the strip, the lions, Ray Romono, but most of all I enjoyed spending the week with you. You are what is unforgettable and why I enjoy life.

    I have learned a lot this past year and as I reflect upon our first year of marriage I am filled with great hope and optimism. I know that you are the love of my life and that I could spend the rest of my life exploring you and enjoying our friendship and our great love.

    I love that we have so many memories and that we create new memories all the time. Vegas was not a bad place for our first anniversary but I am excited to discover where we will spend the next 49....

    I love you, now as I have always....

    Your 1 year old groom.






    Friday, March 02, 2007

    Our First Snowman!

    Dear Frosty,

    Here he is - our first snowman. I think he kind of grows on you after awhile. Your idea and my man power put this little guy together in a short period of time after a long weekend.

    There I was out in the snow in my shorts and my flip flops. Then you had Carli join me and together we made....well we made a snowman with what we had. I think it is quite orginial and I am very proud of the little guy - I know that he is a snowman that we will always remember.

    I want to thank you for encouraging me to have fun and to play! I really do enjoying laughing with you.

    Saturday, February 17, 2007

    My Little Bobsledder

    Dear Gold Medalist,

    I just want you to know how much I enjoyed sledding with you and the kids yesterday. I think you were the best sledder that I have ever seen - you were definitely the most enthusiastic. I was surprised at your adventurous side - the way that in my arms you were willing to slide down the very big and steep hill in our own backyard. I am glad that you love me and that you trust me enough to do things like that.

    I also enjoyed being the hero at the bottom of the hill and able to catch the kids when they slide down. You really do make me a hero and I love you for that.

    This is my best sledding memory and I just want you to know that I love you because you help make me a kid again.

    Ace

    Thursday, February 15, 2007

    My Valentine

    Dear Valentine,

    I want to thank you for making this Valentine's Day such a special day. I enjoyed our "Snow Day" where we got to spend the entire day together. I enjoyed going out to a romantic dinner and being able to share some of our thoughts and feelings. And I greatly enjoyed our giving each other gifts. I have always loved about us that we know what to get each other and that sometimes we think so much alike.

    But probably, the best gift, was your sweet card. I love the card that you picked, but even more the special words that you wrote to me. You are truly the love of my life.

    Happy Valentines Day!

    Wednesday, February 07, 2007

    Our 24 Hour Weekend


    Dear 24 Fan -

    I just don't know what has happened to us. One day we were fine and the next day we were addicted. It is official - we are now "24" junkies. I just want you to know that I have enjoyed spending our last few weekends and weeks watching the past years of "24."

    It really is my desire that I am your Jack Baurer and you are my Audrey Raines. I want to be your hero and I want to always protect you from the bad guys that are out there.

    I really enjoy that you are my soulmate, even the shows that we watch.

    Jack

    Tuesday, January 16, 2007

    Clue Weekend

    Dear Ms. Scarlet -

    I just wanted to write a small note telling you how much I enjoyed our family fun time weekend together. I enjoyed watching 24 with you and I enjoyed the many games of clue. You are very much a detective and I hope that you can detect my love for you.

    I look forward to many more weekend like this one as we build our family and our lives together.

    Col. Mustard

    Tuesday, January 02, 2007

    A New Beginning and a New Year

    Deart New Year Resoultion -

    This was a new year to remember. We didn't spend it in Times Square, or in a 70's resort in the mountains - we simplyt spent it in our new house. We watched a movie and played cards with the kids but we were a family and together we celebrated the new beginning of a new year. I look forward to all the new years that we will be able to share and the experiences that we will share in each of those years.

    Here are my new year resolutions for us:
    1. To kiss you every morning when I wake up.
    2. To let you feel how much I love you and enjoy our relationship.
    3. To be a gentle husband.
    4. To forgive and forget the past

    Here is looking to a new beginning in the new year!

    Monday, December 25, 2006

    A Christmas Day to Remember

    Dear Christmas Elf -

    I want to thank you for such a wonderful Christmas last night. I am talking about our special Christmas after the Christmas Eve service. I was deeply touched by your special gifts that you gave to me. I have always loved the gifts that remind you of us - things about hope, banannas, and your special memory of the works of Rodin. That was a very special gift - I love looking at it each morning. Also, the wondeful lovers fountain was a surprise, but you were right in knowing that I loved it.

    However, you are the best gift that I received this Christmas. I love you and I love sharing everyday with you!

    Saturday, December 16, 2006

    My Birthday

    Dear Birthday Surprise -

    Thank you for making my birthday special. You surprised me with my gift and with a nice a quiet dinner at the Mexican Resturant. I am so lucky to have you in my life. You are the very best and you really treat me like royalty.

    I always do a lot of thinking around my birhtday. For some reason this year was a little different. I seemed to be more in the moment and not as reflective as usual. I think in many ways you have helped me to accomplish much of what I have always been striving for. Together we have found a beatuiful home - I home that we both have always dreamed. Because of you I have the joy of experiencing fatherhood. You have provided me with a family that I love and adore. You are my best friend and the one that I want to share all of my joys and sorrows with - I love you for that and you are the most beatuiful wife that any man could ever dream of....

    I really do love you with all my heart and because of you every day is special!

    Monday, December 11, 2006

    Our Holiday Open House



    Dear Tour Guide...



    This past weekend we had our Christmas Open House. It may have been a bad time of the year to do this event, but with your energy and home making abilities you pulled it off with beauty and grace.

    I enjoyed opening our house to our friends, neighbors, co-workers and our church family. I really do want our house to filled with activities and much laughter and joy.

    I enjoyed most showing you off as my bride and the one that I can't live without. I look forward to developing better friends and being able to have others over.

    Thank you for all your hard work. I really do love you and I appreciate all you do to help us to achieve a better life.

    Thursday, December 07, 2006

    Happy 9 Month Anniversary...

    Dear Bride -

    I can't believe that it has already been 9 months since we stood on that deck in Fiji to say our I do's. Nine months ago at this time we had just been to the prayer mountain and had offered up our prayers for each other and for our marriage. That day really was the best day of my life! It is hard to believe that nine months have already passed - just think we have 49 years and 3 months yet to spend together. You truly are my one and only soul-mate!

    I just want you to know that I love you with all my heart. I have enjoyed watching you and working with you over the past few months. I just can't wait to see what our future holds....

    I love you now and always.

    Wednesday, December 06, 2006

    My Little Christmas Tree

    Dear Tree Topper,


    This past weekend we went and got our first tree for our new house. This has always been one of our favorite traditions, but this year was extra special because it was the very first tree for our new house and the first tree of our marriage. I was extra excited when I was able to put on our new "Hope" tree topper.


    I didn't think that we would ever finish stringging on the lights. We have colored lights, musical lights, blinking lights, and bubble lights. This tree has lights.....


    I love making traditions with you and I love sharing special days with my special someone. I love you because you bring light into my life!


    Ace

    Tuesday, November 28, 2006

    Our New House - My Wish List

    Dear Queen of my Castle -

    I really enjoyed our few moments of christening the house this past weekend. With you this dream that I have always had has finally come true. The funny thing is that now I not only have a house but a home. Baby, I really have found my home with you.

    I wanted to give you my part of my wish list for our new house. Enjoy.
    • I wish that I will get to see my child's first steps in this home.
    • I wish that every room will be filled with memories of laughter and happiness.
    • I wish that we will have moments of warmth in every room like we did on the step to our living room the day that we moved in.
    • I wish that will will make snow angels together here at the first snow.
    • I wish that you will feel how much that you are the one that I want to come home to everynight.
    • I wish that our beach room will remind us of all the fun and memories that we have at the ocean.
    • I wish that lighthouse bathroom will remind you of our exploring the lighthouses at Nags Head and will help us always be explorers.
    • I wish that our love will be expressed in each room with care.
    • I wish that the deck will be filled with family and friends at various cookouts and friendly gatherings.
    • I wish that our neighbors will become our friends for a lifetime.
    • I wish that our new church will be started in our new home and our new neighborhood.
    • I wish for this house to see our love grow and our appreciation deepen for each other and each new day.

    I love you because you help my dreams become real.

    Tuesday, November 21, 2006

    Reasons that I am Thankful

    Dear Ms. Thanksgiving,

    Today we are celebrating Thanksgiving. I have enjoyed spending the last week sharing in our Thanksgiving with both your parents and mine. I will never forget our first Thanksgiving in our new house and our first dinner in our diningroom. Thank you for making our Thanksgiving so special.

    Each Thanksgiving we share why we are thankful. Let me tell you the reasons that I am thankful this thanksgiving:
    1. I am thankful that I have a beautiful women to share my life with.
    2. I am thankful that in you I have found my soulmate.
    3. I am thankful that you chose to be my bride.
    4. I am thankful that we decided on Fiji as the place to get married.
    5. I am thankful that you were there to share with me at my graduation.
    6. I am thankful that we worked together to select and to decorate our new home.
    7. I am thankful that in you I have found my best friend.
    8. I am thankful for your faith.
    9. I am thankful that you are such a great mother and wife.
    10. I am thankful that we chose Teddie from the pound.
    11. I am thankful for your love.
    12. I am thankful for your grace and beauty.
    13. I am thankful that we are best friends and that we can share with each other.
    14. I am thankful that we are going to be married for 50 years.
    15. I am thankful that you are you!

    Thank you for sharing your life with me.....